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We've adopted the Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz and the Four Cardinal Virtues of Lao Tzu as the Site Policy. They are simple, straight-forward and honest. We hope you'll agree and help us create a loving environment for All.


The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz 

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering. 

3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. 

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret. 

Four Cardinal Virtues of Lao Tzu

1. Reverence for all of life.
This manifests as unconditional love and respect for oneself and all other beings.

2. Natural sincerity.
This manifests as honesty, simplicity and faithfulness.

3. Gentleness.
This manifests as kindness, consideration for others and sensitivity to spiritual truth.

4. Supportiveness.
This manifests as service to others without expectation of reward. 

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Consider adding The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz and books including the teachings of Lao Tzu to your reading list. Visit the library for lots of wonderful books and more.